I love my friends enough to take bullcrap from them. Even when it means I cannot tell someone what a completely supercilious twit he/she is, giving me the holier-than-thou act. Somehow I sense this deep sense of total insecurity in him/her that says that he/she is so unhappy to make his/her choice of path in life that he/she has to put up this front to think he/she is happy.
I feel sorry and that's why I let him/her get away with all that he/she says about me. Which is not nice, so as to tell.
Shows I have a holier-than-thou fixation too.